
Styling the xamWebGrid group by area is easy as long as you know the right class to target in your style. The following image depicts the xamWebGrid with a customized group by background.

The key to applying the style is to set the right TargetType value, which in this case is the GroupByAreaControl. The first step is to add a namespace into the XAML to point to the Infragistics Control Primitives.
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xmlns:igPrim="clr-namespace:Infragistics.Silverlight.Controls.Primitives;assembly=Infragistics.Silverlight.XamWebGrid.v10.1"
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Next, create a style that targets the GroupByAreaControl:
<UserControl.Resources>
<Style x:Key="GroupByStyle" TargetType="igPrim:GroupByAreaCellControl">
<Setter Property="Background" Value="Maroon" />
<Setter Property="Width" Value="510" />
</Style>
</UserControl.Resources>
Finally, point the GroupByAreaStyle to the style you just created:
<igGrid:XamWebGrid x:Name="grid" ItemsSource="{Binding Items}">
<igGrid:XamWebGrid.GroupBySettings>
<igGrid:GroupBySettings GroupByAreaStyle="{StaticResource GroupByStyle}" AllowGroupByArea="Top" />
</igGrid:XamWebGrid.GroupBySettings>
<igGrid:XamWebGrid.Columns>
<igGrid:TextColumn Key="Title" />
<igGrid:TextColumn Key="UnitPrice" />
<igGrid:TextColumn Key="UnitsInStock" />
<igGrid:TextColumn Key="UnitsOnOrder" />
<igGrid:TextColumn Key="Category" />
</igGrid:XamWebGrid.Columns>
</igGrid:XamWebGrid>
Now you have the hooks necessary to style the group by area in the xamWebGrid any way you see fit.
Thanks to Stephen Zaharuk for the inspiration for this post :)